Leadership Standards in Action: The School Principal as Servant Leader by Cade Brumley c2012 Rowman & Littlefield Education
Part 1: Principal as Servant Leader through 6 Performance Standards
Performance Standard 1: Visionary Leadership
-develop, articulate, implement, steward vision of learning that is shared and supported by all stakeholders
-mission, vision, values – all stakeholders can articulate
-“Increased student learning requires coherence and continuity in the educational experience for students, which requires strong connections among educators throughout the school” (p. 32)
Performance Standard 2: Instructional Leadership
-advocate, nurture, sustain school culture and instructional program conductive to student learning and staff professional growth
-instruction sum of what students say and do – result of teachers’ efforts
-every instructional decision seeks to achieve school’s vision – must rage war on ineffective instructional practices for betterment of students
-use data to inform decisions, guide instruction, reports on progress
-“Outstanding principals know that their primary role is to teach the teachers” (Whitaker)
-literacy as a vehicle for whole school improvement
-principals spend time in classrooms, give teachers constructive feedback and plans for improvement
Performance Standard 3: Organizational Leadership
-manage organization, operation, resources – safe, efficient, effective learning environment
-schools must be operationally sound for learning to be maximized – especially school safety for students and staff; support teachers with student discipline – ensure student understands expectations and consequences – restore or build relationships
Performance Standard 4: Collaborative Leadership
-collaborate with faculty and community needs and interests
-TEAM = together everyone achieves more
-majority of principal’s time with relational – need to generate initial and strengthen existing relationships; need authentic relationships built on trust, sharing viewpoints, investing in people
-get the right people on the bus and in the right seats; get the wrong people off the bus
-principal facilitates and learns alongside staff; motivates; allows all voices heard; everyone feels valued
-PLCs, job-embedded learning, observe other teachers
Performance Standard 5: Ethical Leadership
-integrity, fairness, democratic
-reflection-in-practice (during); reflection-of-practice (think after event); reflection-for-practice (improve future)
Performance Standard 6: Political Leadership
-understand, respond, influence political, social, economic, legal, cultural context
-decisions made in best interest of students
-school culture: examine with critical lens, seek to establish new cultures that represent diversity, social justice, democracy
-public relations: parents (expect education for child); community (tax money at work); businesses (future workers)
Part 2: Principal as Servant Leader through Laub’s Model
Laub’s (1999) model defines Servant-Leadership as “an understanding and practice of leadership that places the good of those led over the self-interest of the leader”:
1.Servant leaders value people
-trust & belief in people, serve others’ needs before own, non-judgemental listener
-heart of school lies in its people
-everyone has value, can contribute, use everyone’s strengths
-not micromanager: professionals know what to do; provide support and resources – meet classroom needs and emotions; stand by teachers and support them when in trouble
2.Servant leaders develop people
-provide opportunities for learning and growth, model appropriate behaviour, encourage and affirm others
-“When we’re stagnant, we decay”; “If you start getting comfortable and feeling good about yourself, the school will go south on you quick”
3.Servant leaders build community
-build strong personal relationships, work collaboratively, value differences of others
-school as professional learning community
-school is like a family; care deeply about each person
-“we” not “I”
-“collaborate with colleagues in planning, developing, and executing procedures that will result in pleasant learning environment, teaching environment, effective instruction, and genuine learning”
-relationships with students: greet them by name, someone they can talk to, is open; students know principal cares about safety, well-being, getting a good education
4.Servant leaders display authenticity
-being open and accountable to others, willingness to learn from others, maintain integrity and trust
-principal integral part of team – facilitates, encourages, cheers, gently pushes and constantly uplifts others
-don’t have all the answers; unless emergency situation, can wait to make decision; admit mistakes and apologize
5.Servant leaders provide leadership
-envision future, take initiative, clarify goals
-have vision, get other people to buy into vision; principal assumes ultimate responsibility
-high expectations, understands teaching and learning, plans for improved learning, guards teaching and learning, collaborates with colleagues, shares leadership, recognizes achievements, honours culture of school, maintains sense of humour
6.Servant leaders share leadership
-facilitate shared vision, shared power, release control, share status
-decisions made as an admin team
Quotes:
-The principal is “all things to all people” (Fullan, 2001)
-“questions as curiosity in action, problems as opportunities for improvement, issues as possibilities for bringing people toward commonality” (p. 5)
-principal: “wisdom of a sage, vision of a CEO, intellect of a scholar, leadership of a point guard, compassion of a counsellor, moral strength of a nun, courage of a firefighter, craft knowledge of a surgeon, political savvy of a senator, toughness of a soldier, listening skills of a blind man, humility of a saint, collaborative skills of an entrepreneur, certitude of a civil rights activists, charisma of a stage performer, and the patience of Job” (p. 5-6)
-“Managing the daily operation of a school while providing the leadership necessary to guide the school to educational excellence in an extremely complex task in an extremely complex organizational environment” (p. 6)
-communication message: 55% nonverbal expression, 38% quality of speaker, 7% what speaker actually says
Friday, August 24, 2012
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Transforming School
Culture: How to Overcome Staff Division by Anthony Muhammad, c2009,
Solution Tree
There are 2 goals to this book, with the ultimate aim to
reach all students and to narrow the achievement gap:
* understand how school cultures operate from a political
and sociological perspective
* how to shift school culture to create an atmosphere where
change is tolerated and embraced
In his ethnographic study of 34 schools, Anthony Muhammad categorized
4 groups of teachers, which conveys the complexity of school change, due to
differences in beliefs and expectations. Each group cares about students.
(1)Believers
-believe all students can learn, high expectations for
student behaviour and achievement, connects with students, patient, flexible –
e.g., differentiate instruction and assessment
-constant battle with Fundamentalists – but often do not
stand up to beliefs with fundamentalists – passive rather than vocal
-like to join school improvement plan committee, curriculum
initiatives
(2)Tweeners
-new to the school culture
-want to find school stability and how they fit into the
school
-enthusiastic, willing to experiment, believed all students
can learn but not sure how, want to please administrators
-Fundamentalists will communicate with Tweeners when they
are vulnerable to sell their political views – can move Tweeners into camp of
Fundamentalists
-provide PD and support for tweeners so they align with
Believers
(3)Survivors
-small group of “burned out” teachers (2% in study) – trying
to make it day-by-day – concerned with own mental and emotional well-being – no
political agenda
-need to remove these teachers e.g., transfer to another
school, terminate
(4)Fundamentalists
-maintain status quo of traditional schooling – opposed to
change – most aggressive and vocal – conflict with school leaders – will debate,
argue opposing views – will defame through intimidation, disrupt or interrupt
or delay change process, distract through passive aggression – rolling eyes,
not paying attention e.g., marking
-displeased with classroom walkthroughs, data, instructional
and assessment practices – i.e., PD – believe students should sink or swim,
little empathy to students unsuccessful
-work well in informal organization to “recruit” members –
e.g., tweeners – in staff room, parking lot, conversations, hallways – ignore
Believers – Fundamentalists will say they are speaking on behalf of the staff
- must challenge Fundamentalists head-on to move school
forward
- Why do people resist change? What conditions motivate people
to change? How can leaders create conditions to motivate acceptance of change?
(p. 84-85)
-Level 1 Fundamentalists: need to know logical rationale for
change – cannot assume they know rationale – e.g., data, empirical research of
strategy or technique – can be easily converted
-Level 2 Fundamentalists: resist change since do not trust
judgement or skills of leader – emotional need – leader must establish
competence and character (e.g., do not make promises can’t keep, support
people, take responsibility, humility, stay up to date with skills, trust,
ethics, patience, maturity) may be past experiences with administrators
-Level 3 Fundamentalists: resist change since unsure if
changes will cause more stress and not convinced change is for the better –
give change implementation in increments and thoroughly prepare to take
teachers through journey – use PLCs, learning through job-embedded; driven by
data, research, context, collaboration
-Level 4 Fundamentalists: deeply ingrained for status quo as
it defines them – school leader must closely monitor and force compliance to
new direction; document teacher performance for improvement; place where least
damage
Need school-wide focus on student learning and achievement –
develop relationships with teachers – use PLCs for culture of collaboration
Look at school data and answer:
Who are our students; what strengths do they bring to the
school? What needs do they bring to the school? How can we collectively enhance
their lives?
Friday, August 17, 2012
26 (A-Z) Traits of a Leader
26 (A-Z) Traits of a Leader I’d Want To Follow
Posted by Daniel Newman on Aug 16, 2012 in Leadership
Available – Always (within reason) there when they are needed.
Benevolent – Intent is always a key. Good intent especially.
Charismatic – During challenging times and great times this person inspires you to do your best.
Dreamer – Any leader that I work for has to be a dreamer…Some call it vision, but it all starts with a dream!
Empathetic – No matter what someone tells you, they want to feel understood. Any leader I would want to work for would know this, and operate this way.
Failure – What? Yes, I believe any leader worth following has had some failures along the way. Now they are much more appreciative for their success.
Grateful – To be great, you must be grateful. No one does it alone, ever!
Humble- Being humble ranks among the most important of these. Arrogance is the shaky foundation for a leadership house of cards.
Inspirational – I want a leader who aspires to inspire day in and day out.
Just –As in guided by truth, reason, justice, and fairness.
Kind – Nice guys do not finish last. People that allow themselves to be taken advantage of do. Not the same thing.
Level headed – I call it ice water in the veins. If people see you get rattled they will pounce.
Mystique – While I love transparency, I see mystique to leader like Swagger to a superstar. A little goes a long way.
Nimble – Being able to change direction of the ship quickly is key. There is a fine line between nimble and fickle. The former drives success, the later drives you out of business.
Open Minded – Nobody knows everything. Openness to others thoughts, ideas, and input is so important in a leader.
Positive – Debbie downer leads no one. I want a positive leader that balances positive with reality. But always focuses on the good and learns from the bad.
Quality – a focus on quality over abundance is always a better path.
Reliable – to be counted on to live their word.
Supportive – This comes through feedback both positive and negative. But knowing the leader supports you gives the confidence needed to persevere.
Transparent – The ability to be open about plans and intent without creating fear and uncertainty is an art form mastered by the best leaders.
Unbiased – Does not come with predisposition. Always learning and listening to form opinions based on the best information available.
Valor – When the sky appears darkest, this person can be calm and courageous to continue to push forward.
Well Rounded – Okay, it is 2 words, but I would always prefer to follow a person who has many dimensions to their life.
Xanadu (seeks) – In the journey of life this person seeks the “ideal” destination.
Yearning – Having everything leaves nothing to shoot for. A little unfinished business makes for a great leader.
Zealous –Everyone wants a leader that is devoted to the greater cause
If you could draw up the perfect leader A-Z what would you choose? What would you change above?
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
The Daily Practices of Successful Principals by Barbara Brock
& Marilyn Grady ©2012
Corwin Publishers
“They cared about
students and were passionate about improve student learning. They sought
solutions that met student needs, were undaunted by obstacles, and were
unwilling to succumb to the status quo. They saw opportunities instead of
barriers. They were possibility thinkers. They were confident and optimistic
about their abilities and willing to take risks. They inspired teachers and
developed teams of dedicated, hardworking followers and supporters” (p.
xvii)
Part I. Personal
Tip 1: Examine Your Personal Compass
·
Identify your values; allow your values to drive
your actions; act ethically and with integrity
·
What is best for students and student learning
should inform all decisions
·
Principals need to be positive, patient, prudent
(best decisions for school – not easiest or most popular)
Tip 2: Begin With a Vision
·
Create a vision the focuses on students’ needs
and learning, share vision, use vision to guide decisions and actions
·
Everyone in school community must share in
vision and be committed to school goals
Tip 3: Know Yourself: Know How Others Perceive You
·
Build on your talents, focus on your strengths
·
Be aware of your “blind self” – what others
perceive you to be to adjust behaviour
Tip 4: Resonate Confidence
·
Look like a leader, talk like a leader, inspire
confidence, make others feel good about themselves
·
Your office is a reflection of you – clean,
organized, attractive conveys positive image
·
Laugh at oneself
Tip 5: Master Your Emotion
·
Emotional Intelligence – regulate and use
emotions, aware of others’ emotions – how did you behave during last school
crisis or major problem? Last time a staff member made a serious error? You
were angry or disappointed? Were worried or under stress?
·
E.I. and social skills critical for successful
leadership – emotional expressiveness, emotional sensitivity, emotional
control, social expressiveness, social control
·
Do not take things personally
Tip 6: Maintain a Work-Life Perspective That Sustains
Your Well-Being
·
Ability to give to others requires sustained
personal physical, mental, and spiritual well-being
·
“You cannot … take care of people in the school
if you don’t care of yourself and the people at home.”
·
“You have to balance that and know that every
day is a new day. There will be more time to finish [your work]; not everything
is urgent.”
·
Mistakes = opportunities to learn
Part II. Operational
Tip 7: Fan the Flames of Positive Deviance
·
Make changes from the inside out; support
innovators in your school; make learning for all students the goal; base
decisions on a broad base of data; follow school’s mission statement; support
change with resources
·
Managing school change is one of the most
important tasks of the principalship – create learning communities
·
“Change is a messy, complex process, complicated
by barriers, and often accompanied by resistance and confusion” (p. 47)
·
Change is a journey – engage members in the
process of discovery, inviting the community to identify solutions and
spearhead change – engage in discovery with the group
·
Get out of your office to know what is happening
in the school
·
Problems are our friends. They are inevitable.
Use them to learn
Tip 8: Improve Education From the Inside: Empower Teachers
·
“If we want to change schools and learning, we
must begin with teachers. When teachers decide change is needed, it will
happen, and it will be sustainable” (p. 55) – i.e., direct benefits to students
Tip 9: Hire the Best and Maximize Their Talents
·
Hire the best; hire people who have talents you
do not have
·
Principals praise teachers whose performance
leads to student learning, collegiality, and the attainment of school goals
·
“Be a visible presence: Walk through the school,
visit classrooms, talk with teachers, students, and parents to better
understand the people that make up the school” (p. 65)
Tip 10: Use a Team Approach: Think “We” Instead of “I”
·
give credit to the team for successes; accept
responsibility for failure
·
“Leadership is second only to teaching as an
influence on student learning and when leadership is distributed it is more
effective” (Leithwood, Harris, & Hopkins, 2008) (p. 70)
·
Principal creates conditions for teamwork and
student learning to thrive
Tip 11: Honor the Role of the Classroom Teachers
·
“Remember what it was like to be a
teacher…without that insight into what it is like to be a teacher, it is easy
to make decisions that are impractical for the classroom. If you are
supportive, teachers are more likely to be supportive of your decisions” (p.
77)
·
Central work of teachers – engage students in
learning – teachers are experts in teaching and seek their advice in decisions
·
Support teachers who struggle; acknowledge &
celebrate teacher success – be lead cheerleader and coach for teachers
·
Teachers feel safe in school, feel part of a
team, feel appreciated for efforts, recognized for accomplishments, included in
decision-making, free to risk take
Tip 12: Do the Right Thing – Be Accountable for Decisions
·
“Servant leaders achieve success for their
organizations by prioritizing attention to the needs of their colleagues and
the individuals they serve. They view themselves as stewards of their
organization’s human, financial, and physical resources” (p. 85)
·
Treat everyone with respect, humble, make others
feel valued challenge others to grow
·
Transformational leadership: involve staff in
innovative problem solving, communicating high expectations, modelling
appropriate character and behaviour
·
Instructional leadership: 4 roles – resource provider,
instructional resource, communicator, visible presence
·
“If you and your teachers are not making
mistakes, it means you aren’t taking any risks” (p. 89)
Part III. School
Community
Tip 13: Create Trusting Relationships
·
Know the population and community; care about
people and make them feel valued; share your expectations; listen to everyone’s
opinions (i.e., open feedback; silence demonstrates listening); treat everyone
fairly
·
Trusting relationship must be earned, nurtured,
and maintained
·
Principals have critical impact on professional
lives of staff, well-being of students, long-term effect on direct and success
of school
·
Speak with teachers about what they like, do not
like, what want changed
·
Visit classrooms – teachers know you care about
them and their class
·
“It’s the relationships you form with the kids
that is key to how they behave in school…student discipline problems tend to
diminish when the principal has a positive relationship with students and
treats them fairly…connected to their work as instructional leaders” (p. 100)
Tip 14: Context Matters: Adjust Your Leadership to the
School’s Population
·
Be aware of economic and social circumstances of
the community
·
Every school unique – decisions and actions
responsive to social, cultural, political, economic factors of school
population and community
·
Drive and walk around the neighbourhood, review
demographic data of area, visit businesses in area, meet parents, talk with
students, meet teachers
Part IV. Teaching and
Learning
Tip 15: Establish Learning as the Common Purpose
·
Every staff plays role in enriching environment
that supports instruction and student well-being: teachers, support staff
(smooth running of school) – teachers can teach, principal can lead
·
Role of leader: to unit people, establish
direction, maintain group functioning
Tip 16: Be a Leader of Teaching and Learning
·
School leaders 2nd only to classroom
instruction in its impact on student learning – to improve conditions that
facilitated student learning
·
Find time to visit classrooms: discuss
instruction with teachers, talk with students about learning, visibility in
classrooms and hallways
·
Instructional leadership top of hierarchy –
before can lead successful instructional change, need to articulate school’s
moral purpose, have management support in place, create sense of ownership and
collective purpose among staff
·
“Principals need to be educational visionaries,
instructional and curriculum leaders, assessment experts, disciplinarians,
community builders, public relations experts, budget analysts, facility
managers, special programs administrators, and expert overseers of legal,
contractual, and policy mandates and initiatives…broker of conflicting interests
of parents, teachers, students, district office officials, unions, and state
and federal agencies, and they need to be sensitive to the widening range of
student needs” (p. 124)
·
Model continuous learning, use data to inform
practice, support learning communities, being in classrooms, talk about
learning with teachers and students
·
Principal is teacher of teachers
·
Every decision based on “Is this what is best
for our students?” (p. 127)
Tip 17: Link Professional Development With Teaching and
Learning
Tip 18: Invest Time in Developing Teacher Leaders
·
“Teacher leadership is the process by which
teachers, individually and collectively influence their colleagues, principals,
and other members of school communities to improve teaching and learning
practice with the aim of increased student learning and achievement” (p. 142)
·
Mentor future leaders, teachers assume ownership
of own learning and development in professional learning communities
Tip 19: Reflect On and Celebrate Your Accomplishments
·
Speak passionately about dedication to their
schools, their students, their profession
Sunday, August 5, 2012
From: http://dwightcarter.edublogs.org/2012/08/04/monkey-shifting-in-progress/
After much Twitter chatter about Todd Whitaker’s new book, Shifting the Monkey, I had to find out what all the buzz was about. Many educators who read the book created the hashtag #shiftingthemonkey to share their reactions and experiences after reading it. For those who are not familiar with Shifting the Monkey, it’s about the many burdens we may have on our backs, affectionately called monkeys. Sometimes these monkeys are on our backs by our own doing; however, there are times where others dump their monkeys on the backs of others. Whether this happens intentionally or unintentionally is not that important. What is important is that we are able to answer the following three questions to help improve our schools, classrooms, homes, and organizations:
o Where is the monkey?
o Where should it be?
o How do I get it there?
I recently finished the book and had the opportunity to attend his presentation about Shifting the Monkey at the Jostens Renaissance Conference in July. Needless to say, the presentation was incredible and rich with great advice! Following are my takeaways from the book and the presentation:
• “We cannot continue to dump on the best people in our organization.” We notoriously lean on the best people to get things done. This can lead to fatigue, frustration, and burnout. Hold everyone in the organization accountability for what they are supposed to do.
• “We have to treat everyone as if they are good.” When confronting negative behaviors, he encouraged us to maintain a level of respect because it’s not personal. The goal should be to teach what is expected in order to help the individual be better. This really resonated with me because we all want to be respected, appreciated, and encouraged.
• “There is nothing wrong with being afraid. The problem is acting afraid.” We are, at times, afraid to confront negative behaviors, which only allow “bad people” to shift their monkeys to the backs of the people bothered by their behavior. This destroys morale and creates a negative climate. Who out there has had a monkey on your back because of fear?
• “When giving expectations, be nice and firm.” That way, you can easily identify if someone is being insubordinate. Clearly communicated expectations eliminate confusion and make it easier for everyone to follow. I learned from Todd to repeat expectations at the beginning of each school year so that everyone is on the same page. Classroom teachers spend a great deal of time communicating expectations, which positively impacts classroom climate.
• “Nobody repeats a behavior without a reward.” What is recognized and rewarded is repeated. This goes for both negative and positive behaviors. Pouting, complaining, gossiping, and bulldozing continue because we often respond to these behaviors. His remedy is to ignore them. Think about that person in your life who pouts whenever they don’t get what they want. If you have given in to this reaction, you only reinforce the fact that pouting gets them what they want. To ignore simply means you see it happen, but you don’t back down from what you expect of them. It’s easier said than done, but again, this can greatly improve the climate and culture.
• “Avoidance is not a strategy.” When faced with negative behaviors that are counter to your expectations, avoidance does not make them go away. Avoidance places the monkey on all the people that are bothered by the negative behaviors. This can destroy risk taking during staff meetings, classroom discussions, family meetings, planning sessions, or other collaborative learning experiences. Respectfully confront the behavior by asking the person to meet with you immediately after the class, meeting, etc and move on. I’ve done this and it works. I’ve also been the recipient of this when I lashed out at one of my colleagues last fall. I was quickly called to the carpet and man, did I have a gorilla on my back for the rest of the meeting!
• “Ignore is not avoidance. You know it’s there but you choice to respond or not respond.” Sometimes no response is a response that sends a clear message. For example, if someone has a tendency to try to interject a joke while someone else is speaking, simply ignoring that person will show him/her and others that the behavior is not acceptable at that time. This keeps the monkey on the back of the jokester, not you or the others in the room.
• When we see students in the hallway during class, treat them all with respect by asking, “Hi, may I help you?” This prevents favoritism. School is supposed to be a safe and welcoming environment. However, we sometimes prevent this from occurring when we choice a negative way to address students. Asking “may I help you?” is a respectful way to get the information we need and a way of treating everyone with respect.
• “Stop throwing the blanket monkey.” Ouch! I’ve been guilty of this a couple of times. The blanket monkey occurs when there are a few people doing something negative and instead of addressing those few people, you address the entire staff. Two things happen. The great teachers feel guilty because they think you are talking about them. The guilty ones believe you are talking about someone else. In the end, the behavior doesn’t change.
I plan to keep my eye out for the monkeys and make sure they are where they are supposed to be. I encourage you to read the book!
Be Great,
Dwight
After much Twitter chatter about Todd Whitaker’s new book, Shifting the Monkey, I had to find out what all the buzz was about. Many educators who read the book created the hashtag #shiftingthemonkey to share their reactions and experiences after reading it. For those who are not familiar with Shifting the Monkey, it’s about the many burdens we may have on our backs, affectionately called monkeys. Sometimes these monkeys are on our backs by our own doing; however, there are times where others dump their monkeys on the backs of others. Whether this happens intentionally or unintentionally is not that important. What is important is that we are able to answer the following three questions to help improve our schools, classrooms, homes, and organizations:
o Where is the monkey?
o Where should it be?
o How do I get it there?
I recently finished the book and had the opportunity to attend his presentation about Shifting the Monkey at the Jostens Renaissance Conference in July. Needless to say, the presentation was incredible and rich with great advice! Following are my takeaways from the book and the presentation:
• “We cannot continue to dump on the best people in our organization.” We notoriously lean on the best people to get things done. This can lead to fatigue, frustration, and burnout. Hold everyone in the organization accountability for what they are supposed to do.
• “We have to treat everyone as if they are good.” When confronting negative behaviors, he encouraged us to maintain a level of respect because it’s not personal. The goal should be to teach what is expected in order to help the individual be better. This really resonated with me because we all want to be respected, appreciated, and encouraged.
• “There is nothing wrong with being afraid. The problem is acting afraid.” We are, at times, afraid to confront negative behaviors, which only allow “bad people” to shift their monkeys to the backs of the people bothered by their behavior. This destroys morale and creates a negative climate. Who out there has had a monkey on your back because of fear?
• “When giving expectations, be nice and firm.” That way, you can easily identify if someone is being insubordinate. Clearly communicated expectations eliminate confusion and make it easier for everyone to follow. I learned from Todd to repeat expectations at the beginning of each school year so that everyone is on the same page. Classroom teachers spend a great deal of time communicating expectations, which positively impacts classroom climate.
• “Nobody repeats a behavior without a reward.” What is recognized and rewarded is repeated. This goes for both negative and positive behaviors. Pouting, complaining, gossiping, and bulldozing continue because we often respond to these behaviors. His remedy is to ignore them. Think about that person in your life who pouts whenever they don’t get what they want. If you have given in to this reaction, you only reinforce the fact that pouting gets them what they want. To ignore simply means you see it happen, but you don’t back down from what you expect of them. It’s easier said than done, but again, this can greatly improve the climate and culture.
• “Avoidance is not a strategy.” When faced with negative behaviors that are counter to your expectations, avoidance does not make them go away. Avoidance places the monkey on all the people that are bothered by the negative behaviors. This can destroy risk taking during staff meetings, classroom discussions, family meetings, planning sessions, or other collaborative learning experiences. Respectfully confront the behavior by asking the person to meet with you immediately after the class, meeting, etc and move on. I’ve done this and it works. I’ve also been the recipient of this when I lashed out at one of my colleagues last fall. I was quickly called to the carpet and man, did I have a gorilla on my back for the rest of the meeting!
• “Ignore is not avoidance. You know it’s there but you choice to respond or not respond.” Sometimes no response is a response that sends a clear message. For example, if someone has a tendency to try to interject a joke while someone else is speaking, simply ignoring that person will show him/her and others that the behavior is not acceptable at that time. This keeps the monkey on the back of the jokester, not you or the others in the room.
• When we see students in the hallway during class, treat them all with respect by asking, “Hi, may I help you?” This prevents favoritism. School is supposed to be a safe and welcoming environment. However, we sometimes prevent this from occurring when we choice a negative way to address students. Asking “may I help you?” is a respectful way to get the information we need and a way of treating everyone with respect.
• “Stop throwing the blanket monkey.” Ouch! I’ve been guilty of this a couple of times. The blanket monkey occurs when there are a few people doing something negative and instead of addressing those few people, you address the entire staff. Two things happen. The great teachers feel guilty because they think you are talking about them. The guilty ones believe you are talking about someone else. In the end, the behavior doesn’t change.
I plan to keep my eye out for the monkeys and make sure they are where they are supposed to be. I encourage you to read the book!
Be Great,
Dwight
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Book Review: Shifting the Monkey by Todd Whitaker
Book Review: Shifting the Monkey by Todd Whitaker
from: http://www.engagingeducators.com/blog/2012/07/31/book-review-shifting-the-monkey-by-todd-whitaker/
Shifting the Monkey, Todd Whitaker’s recent book on leadership from Triple Nickel Press, is a slim and easy read full of helpful ideas. If you are in a leadership position and want to improve the culture of your organization, I would definitely recommend it.
Initially, before reading, I was a bit bewildered by the title. I thought, “What in the world is a book about monkeys going to offer me?” Todd Whitaker, however, clearly explains his metaphor in the book’s early pages–monkeys are responsibilities. Everyone has them. Except slackers and complainers. They are the ones who shift their monkeys onto others.
Whitaker explains that leaders often reward their behavior by allowing this to happen, by allowing their burdens to be lifted and placed onto the backs of other, more dedicated workers. And Shifting the Monkey is all about how to prevent this from happening. That way, monkeys stop being shifted by poor performers. The problem, Whitaker makes clear, is NOT lazy or incompetent people but rather that these people are being allowed to shift their monkeys.
One thing I appreciated about the book is that Whitaker’s advice and suggestions are specific and clear. He explains all his ideas in detail, making his suggestions extremely easy to follow and implement. In fact, he gives 3 questions that are the foundation of his message:
- Where is the monkey?
- Where should it be?
- How do I shift it to its proper place?
I will say that at some points while reading Shifting the Monkey, I found myself thinking that some of the ideas were a little too…how do I put this…cheesy? Happy? Not sure what the right word is, but there were times I thought “Yea, right.” (Hang in there because I’m going to explain how I changed my mind after thinking about it more.) For example, Whitaker recommends shifting the monkey back onto negative people by treating them with a positive attitude. Essentially, he says you should be super nice to your biggest complainers. I wasn’t buying it at first. It seemed too passive-aggressive–phrasing things in a positive way, offering anonymous praise, etc. But the more I thought about it, the more it seemed like a really smart tactic because he’s not recommending a positive attitude when dealing with only negative workers, but with all workers. Using kindness is a way of rewarding your best workers and challenging your negative workers to stop shifting monkeys. Pretty smart.
Finally, I’ll say that one of my favorite things about this book is how much it focuses on protecting the good workers. I think this has huge applications in the world of education (be forewarned this book is written for leaders in a general sense, not specifically education administrators) because we ask so much of teachers and so many get burned out and leave the profession completely. This seems to happen most in schools that are most desperately in need of teaching talent. It makes you wonder how reading this book could help leaders prevent that from happening.
So, with the school year upon us, if you’re in a leadership position of any sort (or if you aspire to be someday), Shifting the Monkey is well worth the time. It’s concise, practical, insightful, and a book that will keep you thinking long after you’ve finished reading it.
Stephen Covey: 10 Quotes That Can Change Your Life
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from: http://www.forbes.com/sites/kevinkruse/2012/07/16/the-7-habits/2/
Stephen Covey will be remembered most as the author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, which sold over 25 million copies. It’s been many years since I read “the habits” but I was delighted recently when I learned that my 8th grade daughter read The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens in school. Although they weren’t completely original thoughts, the catchy labels he gave the habits made them memorable:
Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
Below are 10 quotes from Stephen Covey that have the power to completely change the direction of one’s life.
1) The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.
2) The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.
3) Live out of your imagination, not your history.
4) Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.
5) Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not enough time on what is important.
6) I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.
7) You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically, to say “no” to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger “yes” burning inside. The enemy of the “best” is often the “good.”
8) I teach people how to treat me by what I will allow.
9) Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her.
10) Live, love, laugh, leave a legacy.
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Kevin is a NY Times bestselling author and his latest book is Employee Engagement 2.0.
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